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In the ER of course. I can almost laugh about this now because it happened last week. It was nearly midnight when we heard a loud thump from the kids’ bedroom, followed by screaming. We raced in to find the boy on the floor, sleep dazed eyes wide with fright, blood running freely down his chin, screaming like a banshee. He was struggling to sit up and move so that was reassuring but I ran to get a warm wet washcloth so that we could find the source of the bleeding. I held him and patted at the blood to discover a deep gash in his chin where the soft skin had suffered the clash between his jaw bone and the hardwood floor. Thankfully I am generally quite calm in emergency situations but this was no fun. In the process of cleaning up the blood I got his pajamas rather wet. As we put dry pajamas on him I wondered at the wisdom of doing so, later I would be very glad we had taken the time. Sleepy girl was concerned for her brother and asked, “Is my boy okay?” “Yes, sweetheart, he’s going to be okay but we are going to have to go to the hospital so the doctors can fix his chin.”

It was confirmed that the wound would indeed need stitches as I had guessed. The boy was having none of the idea of putting a needle anywhere near his face however, so the doctors discussed alternative strategies in between running off to stabilize other patients. Because the boy had bumped his head, it was also important for them to watch him for signs of noggin injury. I can’t quite say “brain”, that’s just too scary, even now.

The girl was wired and the boy was a bit on edge but alertly curious to everything going on around him. Patient nurses were able to talk him into an IV which allowed the doctors to administer a conscious sedative rather than a full anesthesia which they did not want to do given the longer recovery time and the bump to the head. The girl eventually fell asleep on her daddy’s lap. After several near starts, the beepers finally stopped long enough for the doctors to put in three stitches. It took all of ten minutes I think. We made it home near 7am, and crashed. We huddled together in the house and took it easy for the rest of the day.

The wound healed well and the boy seemed unconcerned about the blue “hairs” on his chinny-chin-chin. This morning we went into his regular pediatrician’s office to have the stitches removed with the promise of a treat afterwards. I knew this was not likely to be an easy task. That’s probably why I didn’t sleep much last night. As I feared, the closer we got to the actual removal his anxiety level rose to the point of utter refusal to cooperate. But having confidence in this particular NP, I asked to help restrain him rather than plan another trip to the hospital involving sedation. He yelled and fought but she managed to remove the stitches, griping that they had been done so tightly and apologizing to the boy that it took longer than she had promised. He demanded a mirror before he would allow her to put a bandaid on. Strangely satisfied, he calmed down. The girl hugged her brother in relief after it was over. We left the doctor’s office, tears dried, Batman and Dora stickers in hand, and he enthusiastically counted down the floors as the elevator descended to the parking level.

136687819_6dc8292c4cI consoled him with a trip to a favorite store for new sneakers, and an unheard of treat–ring pops, the sort of candy I would never normally get my kids. They enjoyed these thoroughly, sharing with each other, intently discussing the flavors and colors, and imagining themselves as royalty wearing jewels. Half an hour later the candy was gone but I still had the jitters. And why can’t I sleep tonight? I don’t know. I didn’t even eat one of those things!

pink snow castle
Okay, I don’t know if it’s actually #40, it’s whatever comes in those packs you get at the grocery store. The girl is trying desperately to eke out the last bit of winter play out of the remaining snow before it melts away. So today she insisted we build a castle. One five gallon bucket and a few smaller buckets and cups later we had a highly indefensibly snow castle. Just for fun I grabbed a spray bottle of water and squirted in some red food coloring. Voila! Pink snow castle.

First, I would like to thank all of you who expressed your kind thoughts on the passing of our beloved Brownie. We decided that it was best for us and the kids, especially having lost Daisy just last spring, not to wait but to open our home to some new friends.

We went to the shelter and came home with Lila, a svelte black and white tuxedo, and Duke, a handsome orange and white bi-color. Lila came in with the knowledge that she owned the house. It took Duke a few days to accept that, but they are starting to get along better. They are both loving and playful with all of us. It’s been comforting to have their presence even as we continue to talk about Brownie on occasion.

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Here’s the girl. She dressed herself in an old dress I refashioned for her out of one of my old tee shirts. Then she donned a play silk cape with my help. Nothing out of the ordinary there. But then she took the cut-off sock tops I made her when she asked for “arm sleeves” and put them on her legs. That got the camera out. Isn’t she hilarious?

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This is one for the history books. The boy, the girl and I were so busy, actually enjoying, cleaning their room that I completely lost track of time and missed the bus to afternoon kindergarten! The historic part of this of course is that we were enjoying cleaning together. They parted with a few unloved toys and stuffed animals, calmly agreeing that I could give them away. I had hoped they would part with a few more but since it was the boy’s idea today I figured I wouldn’t push it. The secretary at the school had a good chuckle when I told her what I’d done and that the boy would be there shortly thanks to the dad-mobile.

Now I expect to hear some embarrassing stories from the rest of you, because if you are a friend of mine I know you’ve done some silly stuff like this too!

snow Totorosnow squirrelsnow rabbitIt was quite warm today. The snow was melting, the icicles were growing and sometimes falling. The boy and I had fun cracking previously indestructable ice off the driveway. I was feeling lucky (or dangerous) so I threw ice chunks at the icicles, hoping to break the icicles and not hit any windows. Tomorrow is supposed to be warm too with rain later in the day so hopefully we will have more melting occurring on the roof. Not keen on the ground thawing though because that means water in the basement. But for today we decided to enjoy the softened snow and make some animals.

All of these were made to face a window on the back of the house so they can be seen from the inside. First came the snow Totoro. He ought to have black eyes but I was feeling lazy. Then the girl asked for a squirrel outside her window. I gave him the biggest acorn I could find out of my fall stash. I wonder how long it will stay there before it gets claimed by a real squirrel.

When the boy came home he admired our handiwork and helped me fashion a rabbit in front of the last window. These were much easier than I had expected. I guess if you have the right snow, it’s really not hard. I do need to get some better gloves though. We collectively soaked through three pairs of gloves, two pairs of tights and at least three pairs of socks today. I guess that’s spring snow for you.

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sun through snowy branchessnowmelt runoffThe girl and I take a walk almost every day. Here are a few favorite sights. Despite the foot of fresh snow from a few days ago and the ridiculously high snowbanks, the sun is shining, the birds are flitting about singing happily and water is running through the drainage ditch. Looks like a stream doesn’t it? I suppose it is, I think it runs year round. The girl happily splashed through puddles as I paused to take pictures of some of our favorite things. We didn’t make it around the block as the sidewalk on Main St. is still impassable. Usually the town makes quick work of clearing the sidewalks with a huge orange tractor/snowblower thingy but we didn’t see it today. It’s had a busy winter, maybe it’s taking a break. I don’t expect that was our last snow but it’s possible it was the last really good dumping. Who knows when we’ll see the ground again! (The last photo was taken the day after the storm.)
icicles on a fir treefish mailbox in the snowbanksplashing through the puddleshome again

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stick garden in the snow

stick garden in the snow

the girl and her stick garden

the girl and her stick garden

Sunday night brought a heavy spring snow that added a foot of fresh snow to our already piled yard. The heavy snow also took a toll on the trees and brought down lots of branches and smaller sticks as well. Monday was a snow day from school for the boy but the sun came out and made for great playtime out in the snow. The girl was delighted as she loves sticks and the snow cover has made it very hard to find sticks on our walks. The girl began picking up fallen sticks and planting them in the snow with just a little help from me. Here she is, quite pleased with her completed stick garden.

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Lego creatures with hand drawn instructions

Lego creatures with hand drawn instructions

The boy spent the weekend creating super hero “bats” out of his Mini Racer Legos (first rate sets BTW). First came “Redbat”, complete with a hand drawn instruction booklet! (I drew, he colored and wrote in the numbers of pieces needed just like in the booklets from Lego.) Redbat was quickly joined by Blackbat, Yellowbat, Bluebat, Whitebat and Greenbat.
Among the adventures of the bat heroes was celebrating Whitebat’s birthday with a foam bead birthday cake. I don’t remember when we made that but it’s gotten a lot of pretend play use.
Lego creatures having a birthday party

Lego creatures having a birthday party

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eating snow ice cream

eating snow ice cream

We finally got some fresh snow yesterday and last night. The boy and I retooled the luge tunnel. I groomed the steps to our mini-hill and the girl and I tested the hill. Better with every snow. We had friends over yesterday and the kids had fun climbing all over a creature of unknown species that us mamas were attempting to make. It was perfect snowman snow or snow camel, snow elephant, snow blowfish . . . While the boy and his sister were wishing their friend was back to play I ran in the house for a big bowl, spoons and a large measuring cup into which I splashed cream, sugar and vanilla. We found an untouched patch of fresh snow to scoop into the bowl. Then the boy poured in the cream mixture and I mashed at it with the whisk. Snow cream! I’ve never done this before but I’ve heard about it. It was much better than I thought it would be. Maybe because we made it ourselves. Some things are like that, yes?
Okay, no comments about acid rain please, don’t spoil the fun!

It was about this time of year that I first sang this to the boy, his first winter if I recall correctly. I was in the habit of singing to him in the car as that seemed to be the only thing that kept him from wailing if I had to slow down or stop. One gray afternoon we were rounding the last corner on the way home and I was running out of songs to sing. This was the result.

Sleep tonight
under the moonlight
the snow falls soft and white
into the quiet night.

Sleep tight
and dream of sunshine bright
’cause everything’s alright
in mama’s arms tonight.

©2003 Cynthia Davies

I was touched to hear my husband singing this softly to the girl one night recently. Maybe one of these days we’ll get around to recording it.

making heart shaped crayons

I know this post is probably a little late, seeing as it’s 11pm EST on Valentine’s Day but I’m posting it anyway. We did these earlier in the week, I just haven’t had time to upload the pictures.

The boy and I, with help from the girl, made heart shaped crayons for Valentine’s day for all their school and church friends. This is quite easy to do and you can use up the broken crayons this way. There are lots of instructions already available on the web but I will give my method and suggestions having done it several times now. The easiest way to make your own heart shaped crayons is to use:

  • Crayola brand crayons*
  • silicon mini muffin molds in any shape
  • toaster oven at 300°
  1. First peel the paper off the crayons. Using a craft knife to slice down the paper makes it much easier. If you are using new crayons, you will need 9-12 crayons to fill 6 wells of a mini muffin tray.
  2. Cut up your crayons with craft scissors or a kitchen knife. If you are making single color hearts it doesn’t matter how small the pieces are as long as they fit in your molds. If you are using multiple colors, I like to cut them into 1/4 inch to 1/2 inch size pieces depending on the size of your molds.
  3. Silicone molds are the easiest because you can easily pop the finished crayons out when they are fully hardened. If you use a metal tray, stick it in the freezer for a few minutes and the molded crayons should come out fairly easily. In either case use at least a layer and a half of crayon bits to make a 1/4 inch thick molded crayon. More bits makes a thicker crayon. Do not fill all the way to the top of the mold!
  4. If you are using individual molds, like I did, place them on a cookie sheet so you can easily slide them in and out of the toaster oven. Be especially careful when removing from the oven as you want your pretty colors to stay separated. Stirring the melted wax is not necessary and will leave a mark on the other side. Depending on your oven and the size of your molds it can take 5 to 10 minutes for the crayons to melt.
  5. Allow the molded crayons to cool fully before unmolding. Be patient!

The bottom side will be the prettier side. Any little edges sticking up can be smoothed by simply sliding the crayon over paper. I like to use two to three complimentary or analogous colors. But experiment and find your own favorite combinations! Pair a handmade molded crayon or two with a little notebook for a nice little gift any time of year for a friend of any age. Everyone should draw with crayons, not just kids!

*If you have used other brands of crayons there will most likely be a layer of clear/cloudy wax that hardens on the top. This is not pretty and it’s frustrating to kids. You can fix this by very carefully sliding the crayons across a vegetable slicer until you have removed the clear layer.  This will actually make the inferior crayons draw better than before because the process concentrates the pigments and removes excess wax.
It’s also prudent not to use the same tools for food and for crafting. I admit to not always being prudent. eek!

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mini-luge tunnel

mini-luge tunnel

We’ve had a great amount of snow this winter and the huge bank on one side of the driveway tempted my husband into digging a tunnel through it. With a bit of work from both ends we managed to dig it out just wide enough for a sled to pass through. It’s best to go down prone and feet first, luge style. Or if you’re younger than 10 you might get away with skeleton style, head first. Adults may get stuck and need to be rescued by energetic kindergartners. I wish I knew how to put a video in but I haven’t figured that out yet. We’ve had great fun with it, especially the girl, last year she hated the snow, this year she is considering the pre-school winter X-games!

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This is the boy trying out the head of a donkey I made for a skit a few years ago for our church’s Children’s Workshop program. The skit was about Balaam’s donkey, which you can read about in the Bible (Numbers 22). It’s an interesting story, both amusing and powerful. The donkey head was constructed of plastic canvas, nubby fleece, felt, humonguous plastic eyelashes and some jute for the harness. I used a ball cap to get the shape of the head for the wearer and then made extensions from there to shape the horsey nose and ears. I sewed and glued the fleece onto the plastic canvas base. I left eyeholes in the fleece which had black canvas behind them so the wearer could see out but you can’t really see the human eyes underneath. You’ll probably laugh when I tell you that my husband played the part of the donkey wearing a grey sweatshirt and yarn tail along with the donkey head. But go read the story, the donkey has the last laugh!

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smarshmallow (according to the girl)

  1. those little white things Nana puts in your hot chocolate
  2. white mushrooms

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